William E Carr Jr, at the age of 86, joined his heavenly Father on March 2, 2025. His beloved wife of 39 years, Betsy, was by his side at their home in Ocala, FL, where he enjoyed the past 13 years. He felt blessed and proud to be the father of Karin Diane Surber (John Sayre), Kelly Sue Gangl (Ken) and David William Carr (Marisa). His buttons burst over granddaughters, Kaitlyn, Taylor, Ashley, Molly and Gianni. He was grateful for the boys who came into the family – CJ and Lucas. Bill was over the moon as the Great Grandfather of Colton and Eleanor knowing two more great grandchildren were on the way. He is also survived by his sister Carolyn Sue Bailey, dear Cousin Judy, as well as a multitude of nieces and nephews. He is predeceased by his parents William E. Carr and Bessie Irene (nee Crooks), Kissing Cousin Beverly Kosel, Mother-in-Law Anne Goyette, Sister-in-Law Suzy Richards and Brother-in-law Geoffrey Goyette.
Bill worked 32 years for General Motors, from 1959-1992. He joined Delco Electronics in 1962 after graduation from Purdue University with a BS in Electrical Engineering. He held positions as sales engineer in Kokomo, IN and Camden, New Jersey, later moving up through manufacturing to superintendent before assignments as national radio sales manager (60 people in 35 cities across the US) and then assistant general sales manager. He was director of Delco Electronics’ business plans new venture development. In 1983 he became the manager of Delco Electronics’ Milwaukee, WI operations. In 1985 he transferred to Delco Products division in Dayton, OH. He became plant manager at Machine Control Systems. He earned recognition from the U.S. Department of Defense for quality improvement. Bill developed a strategic planning process and reorganized a $1 billion international business. He was proud of his work as the project manager completing the acquisition of a $40 million French manufacturing business. In 1992 he managed the divestiture and sale of Machine Control Systems which, by then, was a $50 million manufacturing business.
Taking a well-deserved retirement from General Motors, Bill & Betsy bought an Airstream motorhome. Bill did the driving and along with “the boys”, their labrador retrievers Doc and Max, they visited all of the lower 48 states. Bill walked across the mouth of the Mississippi river; was a harness racing judge in Maine; ate fresh caught lobster from the shores of the Atlantic Ocean; caught Goliath Grouper in the Pacific Ocean; hiked along the Continental Divide; went snorkeling amongst the petroglyphs in Texas; surveyed the volcanic rock and large data array in New Mexico; caught salmon on the Rogue river in Oregon; fly-fished the Yellowstone river in Montana; went spelunking in the caves of Tennessee; and was a “Yellow Shirt” at the Indianapolis 500. For decades he attended the festivities and The Indianapolis 500 Race with family and friends and even became a season ticket holder in J Stand turn 3. Bill enjoyed working with wood and made several blue-ribbon winning cribbage boards. He learned to work with geodes and rocks, putting his talents into making cabochons for bolo ties. He enjoyed driving the highways of the United States using the handle of “Pencil Pusher” to talk with the truckers along the way. Bill was an avid reader who most loved “Zen and The Art of Motorcycle Maintenance” by Robert M. Pirsig as well as the poems of Robert Frost, particularly “Stopping by Woods on a Snowy Evening” and “Nothing Gold Can Stay”. His favorite biblical reference was Psalm 23. Music was always a big part of his life. He enjoyed concerts and jams around the campfires. His “traveling” CD collection numbered well over 100. From soft jazz, The Moody Blues, Stevie Wonder or Willie Nelson, he loved it all. In the end it was bluegrass that captured his heart. Bill enjoyed the competition of playing games such as contract bridge, cribbage, euchre, UNO, Phase 10, monopoly, and any other board or card game he was introduced to. He mastered Sudoku. He shot a 6 handicap in golf for decades, and introduced his passion for golf to all of his children. His all-time favorite movie was “Lawrence of Arabia”. His mastery of the fudge he made at Christmas time was appreciated by many! Bill always enjoyed birds and watching them was a favorite pastime.
Bill loved to laugh. He was generous with his time, talents and money. He was loving, kind, compassionate, positive and humble.
As a second career, Bill took a job in security at Bonita Bay working his way up from security guard to assistant community patrol manager. While there he received several awards: “You Make a Difference” President’s award for customer service; “Quality in the Workplace” award and over 40 stars for specific customer service achievements. He became an Official Storm Spotter earning the SKYWARN spotter certification. He completed the CAM (Community Association Manager) licensure as well. He held a HAM operator license (N8ZFP).
Not least of his lifelong achievements was his Silver Beaver award in 1983 from the Sagamore Council Boy Scouts of America. He was Director of the Greater Estero Arts Council; on the board of directors for Dayton New Futures as well as the Greater Milwaukee Committee. He was a lifetime member of the Elks. He was member of Phi Beta Capa while at Purdue University.
Bill was given the challenge of living with Parkinson’s disease. He was an avid exerciser and attributed his personal trainer, Sue Lassiter, with helping him prolong his extraordinary quality of life. He suffered a massive stroke in November of 2024 but, in the end, it was his heart that gave out.
Raise your glass in a tribute to Bill and shout “Boiler UP”!
Memorials in his honor may be made to The United Way of Marion County, FL; World Vision; The Davis Phinney Foundation for Parkinsons.






Betsy and family,
What a beautiful tribute to an amazing husband, father, brother, grandfather, great grandfather and friend.
What a great neighbor you both have been. We will miss Bill’s smile, kindness and courageous fight to recover. We are here if you ever need anything!
Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Betsy, who was there by his side throughout, his family, friends and all who thought the world of him! Your love and devotion to Bill was so obvious!
We extend our deepest sympathies to you and your family.
Growing up a few blocks away Bill was always a great friend and student. We found an early kinship through our math classes with Basil Hosier, a teacher who demanded excellence! We also gained early work experience at Hanks Market. As roommates at Purdue he excelled and I had too much Fun! Gods speed my friend!
RIP Grandpa. You will be greatly missed. Thank you for all of the lovely memories we shared together. Love you!
Bill was one of a kind and am proud to call him a friend!
We celebrate the gift of friendship and fun with Bill! A beautiful, accomplished life of success, laughter and the love of his wife and family. May Betsy and family find comfort in memories and love.
Bill’s legacy is extraordinary. We wish we had known him better than we did. May he rest in peace, & may his memory be a blessing to all who knew him…
We were so sorry to hear of Bill’s passing. He was a wonderful friend & we shared many fun times together. Please know our thoughts & prayers are with all of you during these trying times. Ron & Jan
May his memory be eternal. Love you grandpa Bill ❤️
I remember hanging out at your house and your Dad was so nice!!! He was such a good Dad! After reading all his accomplishments, it's a great honor to have met him and known him!!!!
It was such a pleasure to meet Bill and assist with providing care for him while he was a patient here at Select. May he rest in peace. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family at this time of mourning. God bless your family and help them through this difficult time.
So sorry to hear this, my condolences. He was a big part of my father‘s life. He will be missed.
So sorry to hear this, my condolences. He was a big part of my father‘s life. He will be missed.
Bill was such an important influence to me during my formative years. I knew he was a great man even then. He will be missed and remembered by me for thee rest of my life. I wish David, Karin, Kelly, and Betsy peace in their hearts. His legacy is strong in them. One love
Chad Lewis
Dad,
You have always been my role model and mentor, teaching me through example about the value of integrity, hard work, and honor. You lived your life with intention and made each day matter. I’m inspired to live my life to the very fullest and hope to accomplish just a fracton of all the amazing things you got to experience in your lifetime. May you rest in peace until we meet again. ❤️❤️❤️
I knew Bill from grade school thru Purdue University. He and I car pooled from Anderson IN to Indianapolis for Purdue night school. We both graduated on campus. He and I were both GM guys at one time or another also. I lasted a few years and he lasted 32 years and retired. I didn’t amount to much there and he became an accomplished executive! Who knew (smiley face). I went on to work for IBM and retired from there. It was after my retirement that I found him again in Estero, FL. He was head of security at a place I used to sneak into while riding my bike. He didn’t arrest me or anything. I didn’t know he worked there. I, rather, found him at a mall that I lived 5 minutes from. It was just fantastic to see him again and renew the friendship. Ours was a long and fun friendship. And I’m sorry I can’t share some of our antics together. Hilarious but… he would come back and haunt and get after me if I did.
My admiration for him was over the top. He was a great person, great family man, great Boilermaker, hard/smart worker, happy camper/traveller and much more. He plows into my memory often and welcome, causing nostalgia and laughter. I miss him a bunch and am glad he’s at peace now. Hannahhhhh my dear friend! Probably see you soon (hopefully not) but will be glad to see you when I do. Boiler up, baby!!!! 😊 Tom W.
My Dear Bill,
What a very special, kind, loving gentle man you are. My heart is very saddened for losing you from our lives. We have all been so blessed to have known you and call you our friend. I personally consider myself a lucky lady to have been able to laugh and enjoy your beautiful presence.
May we once again enjoy your loving company when we meet again, on the other side. You have touched both mine and Dan's life. 💔❤️🩹