Ralph “Fitz” Michael Fitzgerald, 68, of Pensacola, Florida, passed away peacefully on August 4, 2026. He was born on November 23, 1957, in Shelton, Connecticut, to the late Ralph V. and Camille E. (Salerno) Fitzgerald.
Fitz is survived by his beloved wife, Kerry Fitzgerald of Pensacola, Florida; his daughters, Kyleen (Ricky) Martin of Peoria Heights, Illinois, and Katie (Ryan) Whalen of Morton, Illinois; his grandchildren, Kayla (Austin) Wiegand of Collinsville, Illinois, and their son, Kaleb; Kennedy (Josh) Eaton of Morton, Illinois; Keely (Damian) Becerra of Peoria Heights, Illinois, and their daughter, Kaleia; and Remy Martin and Ricky Martin of Peoria Heights, Illinois; his stepchildren, Cody (Shyanne) Desanto of Caneyville, Kentucky, and their daughter, Rhaenyra, Dylan Desanto of Dallas, Texas, Nick Desanto of Scottsdale, Arizona, and Emily Desanto of Oxford, Mississippi; his brother, Paul (Allegra) Fitzgerald of Shelton, Connecticut, and their children, Michael, Bryan, and Maggie; his sister, Karen Mudd of Auburn, California, and her children, Kyle and Travis; his aunt, Anna Salerno Schoff (Hal Melfi) of Phoenix, Arizona; and many great-nieces, great-nephews, extended family members, lifelong friends, and fellow Soldiers who will cherish his memory.
Fitz proudly served in the United States Army for more than 20 years, retiring as a First Sergeant. He was especially proud of his time with the 82nd Airborne Division, where he served as an Airborne Ranger, Master Parachutist, and Jumpmaster. Throughout his distinguished military career, including service during Operation Desert Shield and Operation Desert Storm, he earned the Bronze Star Medal and numerous other military decorations in recognition of his leadership, courage, and dedication. As a First Sergeant, Fitz took great pride in mentoring young Soldiers, leading by example, and earning the respect of those who served beside him. His military service was more than a profession; it was his passion, and he carried the values of duty, honor, and service with him throughout every chapter of his life.
Following his Army retirement, Fitz began a second career in education at Linn State Technical College, where he taught Heavy Equipment Operations. He continued his career at Delta Technical College, where his natural leadership, strong work ethic, and ability to mentor others eventually led him to serve as Campus President. Much like his years in the Army, Fitz found purpose in leading others, passing along what he had learned, and helping students develop the skills and confidence needed to build successful careers.
Outside of work, Fitz embraced life with enthusiasm and was always ready for his next adventure. He had a lifelong love of hockey and enjoyed both playing and coaching throughout the years. He loved spending time on his boat and at the beach, where he found peace and happiness near the water. In retirement, he discovered a new passion for pickleball and became a Professional Pickleball Association (PPA) referee, traveling to tournaments and staying actively involved in the sport. Whether on the ice, at the beach, or on the pickleball court, Fitz’s energy, competitive spirit, and love of life were unmistakable.
Anyone who knew Fitz will remember his unmistakable booming voice and commanding presence. His legacy of service, leadership, patriotism, and love for the United States Army will continue to live on in the hearts of all who knew him.
ALL THE WAY!







First Sergeant Fitz was more than a fellow soldier to me; he was my neighbor, my brother-in-arms, and my friend. We served together at Fort Devens, Massachusetts, and served in the same Engineer Brigade in Germany. Whether on duty or off, Fitz lived the values of duty, honor, and service every single day. He was a leader who shaped the lives of countless young soldiers and earned the deepest respect of everyone who stood beside him. Rest in peace, my friend. Your watch is over. V/R, Sam Perrotta, CSM Retired.
A friend like no other, a soldier, a patriot, a mentor, an exceptional son, husband, father, sportsman, tough as nails competitor and pro level referee…there will never be another Fitz and I am profoundly grateful and proud to say he was my friend…
Tony and I will miss Fitz very much! His positive attitude will always be remembered! Love, Tony and Karen Jadin
I think that everyone loved Fitz, including me i felt good knowing that Fitz and people like him were involved in keeping our country safe and free. I will miss him.
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Sorry to hear the passing of Ralph. Went to school together at Shelton High School. He was not only a great guy but good hockey player. May he RIP and fly with the Angels
One of the most beautiful things to witness was the relationship he and Kerry shared, not only during the good times, but even more so during the difficult ones. They loved each other fiercely, stood by one another through it all, and never wavered. That kind of love is something truly special.
I’m so happy you found your perfect partner, Fitz, and that you lived life to the fullest with her by your side. You truly made the most of the life you were given.
Rest in peace, Boss. You will be deeply missed. Until we meet again. ❤️
Fitz was a fellow referee in the pickleball world. I have so many good memories of him and when he called to say goodbye, he reminded me of the time we were heading to a tournament together with another friend Julie b, and he got in Julie’s car for a short ride to the venue and I was choking on his aftershave, and so being the helpful/mothering type I told him that it was overpowering and don’t wear it tomorrow. He reminded me of that moment because it stuck out how I was looking out for his best interest as he was being evaluated that tournament to become a CR. He made it as a CR and went on to become a Head Referee for the PPA and a much loved figure. So many people have fond and funny moments about Fitz. I was grateful to have been at his final tournament and work by his side as his RC (Referee Coordinator). We were a great team and his positive attitude, encouraging gruff speeches will never be forgotten. As a fellow Christian I know that Fitz is in the presence of God and awaits those of us who will give our lives to Him. That comforts many of us who will miss him for years to come. Refereeing is a small part of Fitz’ life as I read his history, what a great guy and true PATRIOT.
Fitz will ALWAYS be my favorite boss, even though it’s been years since we last worked together. To this day I always think of him when I order a Frappuccino from Starbucks because he got me started on those and would often treat us at work. I enjoyed working under him and quickly realized he was more than a leader; he was a good friend. Always positive and easy to talk to. Always made me feel appreciated and allowed me to vent somedays if needed, and somehow always managed to leave you better than when he found you. I will never forget him taking my son to McDonalds and getting him a happy meal in his convertible. My son was small at the time, but he just thought Fitz was the coolest dude ever, as did I. Fitz was a good man and will remain cherished. I am absolutely going to miss him dearly and miss hearing from him. What a treasure and so grateful I had the opportunity to meet him in life. RIP solider. You will never be forgotten to me.
Heaven has been enriched.
I’ll never forget how hard he fought and studied the game, worked with Norman C. To become one of the best Pickleball referee’s that the game of Pickleball had. He had a passion and it showed! You will be missed here on earth! But you are no longer in pain, no more suffering, you are restored new! Eternity has a new angel!
Love to you, my brother in Christ ❤️🙏
Karen Cann
May you rest forever in peace. Your love of life and enthusiasm were inspiring and contagious. I’m so sorry that you were not able to get that heart transplant. Prayers for all of your loved ones left behind. You will be so missed with love, Sharon, Robert, Nickolas, Jonathan, & Brenden