Thomas Allen Hettmansperger
October 4, 1979 ~ May 14, 2025
Thomas Allen Hettmansperger passed away on May 14th, 2025 while in a hospital facing medical issues that had been tormenting him for many years. He was an amazing child who struggled in life making choices that led him down a long, lonely road. Whatever his choices were, or wherever he paid for his mistakes, his family never stopped encouraging a more ‘positive’ future for him with a true loving, heartfelt concern for him. He had an amazing heart. His regrets for past mistakes, was truly a focus for him which helped heal his pain and loneliness. We all miss him so much! The real truth that we all need to understand is Tommy is truly FREE from pain, FREE from loneliness, FREE from illness, and FREE from remorse. He is now fully at peace. His spirit, kind heart and sincere love for his family and friends will live on in our memories of a very special son, brother, and father.
He is survived by his Father Glenn Hettmansperger (Cindy), Step-Mom Laura Hettmansperger, Mother Bonnie Diane Harvey (Gene), brothers T.J. and Trevor, sister Tonya, his children Trey, Thomas and Chris, and many loved nieces and nephews.
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My brother was a very great and strong brother and he had to fight to hard to live a normal life like the rest of us. Mostly because of his mistakes in life. But he was a very good person and I wish he could have been a happier person and not so angry all the time. So he could have had a more peaceful and happier life. He will be dearly missed for a very long time. But he is at peace now, I know, no matter how much it hurts me. Rest in peace my lovely brother. I miss you so much and pray for you all the time. I can’t wait to see your face again. I love you more than words can say.
Rest in peace Tommy
Love you always
Auntie Jackie
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Although I did not know Tommy I do know how much he was loved. My heart breaks for all that loved him and are missing him!
“The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.”
Psalms 34:18
Sending lots of love to you Glen, Cindy (mom), TJ, and all that loved Tommy! Rest easy
I have prayed for years for you to overcome your weaknesses. I pray today that you have found your peace and you are now resting in the arms of the Lord .
I am so sorry for your loss. I pray that you lean on Jesus and that he covers you and makes your pain a little easier. It is never easy losing a family member. I didn’t know Tommy but I know Diane and Gene. They love and miss Tommy deeply.
My heart goes out to you and your family, I am so sorry for your loss. We share a son together and for that he will always hold a special place in my heart. Rest in peace Tommy. You will be missed by so many
Always considered Tommy as my first baby because I helped his mama with him when he was little I was sad to hear that he passed away and I think that he's in heaven now with Jesus Tommy's made a lot of mistakes in his life and he's fixed a lot of them and I think God forgave him for all that and I know that he's in a better place now not suffering and hurting anymore fly high little man I'll miss you